The Healing Paradox

EP 7 - Understanding Emotional Triggers

Have you ever had a reaction that felt bigger than the moment? Like something small happened - but it hit something deep?
In this episode of The Healing Paradox, we explore the truth about emotional triggers - what they really are, where they come from, and how they can actually guide us toward healing. You'll learn to spot the patterns, breathe through the moments, and hear what your trigger is really trying to teach you.
Because your trigger isn’t a flaw - it’s a guide. Listen now and start making space … between the moment, and your response.

EP 6 - Releasing The Need For Validation

Do you find yourself overthinking how people respond to you, or spiralling into self-doubt when they don’t? That quiet need for validation can run deeper than we realise.
 
In this episode of The Healing Paradox, we explore how seeking approval keeps us disconnected from our truth and how letting go of that need creates space for real emotional freedom. You'll hear practical tools, powerful insights, and a gentle self-validation practice to bring you back to inner steadiness.
 
If you’re ready to stop chasing approval and start trusting yourself, this episode is for you.

EP 5 - Why Trying To Fix The Relationship Isn’t Working

When we care deeply about someone, it’s natural to want to fix what’s broken. But sometimes, the harder we try, the more stuck we feel - and the more distant the other person becomes.
In this episode of The Healing Paradox, we explore why the impulse to fix often backfires, and how letting go - gently, intentionally - can actually open space for a deeper kind of healing. You’ll hear the story of a mum who stopped trying to control the outcome and started healing her side of the story… and what happened when she did.
If you’re worn out from trying to hold it all together, this one’s for you.

EP 4 - The Stories We Tell Ourselves

We all carry stories about who we are - stories we didn’t even choose.
“I always mess things up.”“I’m too much.”“They’ll never forgive me.”
In this episode of The Healing Paradox, we explore how these old beliefs quietly shape our emotions, our behaviour, and our healing journey. You’ll learn how to spot the stories that keep you stuck, discover where they came from, and take the first gentle steps toward rewriting them.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re living on autopilot, or stuck in the same emotional loops - this one’s for you.

EP 3 - Breaking Free From Guilt And Shame

Have you ever found yourself replaying past mistakes - something you said in the heat of the moment, a decision you regret, or just not being the parent or partner you hoped you’d be?
Guilt and shame are incredibly common - but they’re also two of the most powerful blocks to healing.
In this episode, we explore the difference between guilt and shame (and why it matters), why we hold onto these emotions, even when they hurt, and a simple self-forgiveness practice you can start using today
If you’ve been carrying emotional weight for too long, this episode is for you.

EP 2 - The Hidden Blocks To Healing

You’re doing the work. You’re showing up. But somehow… nothing’s shifting. Sound familiar?
In this episode, we’re uncovering the hidden blocks that keep you stuck in emotional loops - despite your best efforts. Jez explores three of the most common patterns that quietly sabotage healing: the need for a certain outcome, unconscious beliefs, and trying to do it all alone.
If you’ve been feeling like something’s missing on your healing journey, this conversation might be the turning point.

EP 1 - What Is The Healing Paradox

What if healing doesn’t look the way you thought it would? In this first episode, Jez unpacks the core message behind The Healing Paradox - why healing often defies logic, what gets in the way, and how true transformation begins within. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the right things and still not getting the outcome you hoped for, this episode will help you see the process in a new light.